33 Ways to Kiss Your Lover

Nothing spells romance like the simplicity of a kiss. The anticipation of the first kiss, and the longing for the next. Even when we've kissed our lover countless times, we keep coming back for more.

So, get into gear, Claire, and pucker your lips, Chris, here's 33 inventive (some old, some new) ways to kiss your lover.

1. French Kiss: No list would be complete without it. We don't know if the French really invented it, but this tongue to tongue action is a popular keeper for good reason!

2. Hershey Kiss: Take a bite of your favorite chocolate treat and swap the pleasure with your partner.

3. Red Hot Kiss: Similar to the Hershey Kiss, but substitute a cinnamon candy or small breath mint instead.

4. Spiderman Kiss: Have your partner lean their head over the edge of the couch or a bed, then move in for an upside-down kiss. No mask required, but if you want to add a little role play- go for it!

5. Ross and Rachel: Grab your best friends and go at it. That is if you are both available and have been pining for each other for years.

6. Nibble Kiss: While kissing take a few, soft and playful bites of your partner's lower lip.

7. Wizard Kiss: Say "abracadabra" and then use your tongue as your wand to make all your wishes come true.

8. Sex In the City Kiss: Grab your partner and indulge in a sensual romp of tongue twisting, then discuss his technique with your girlfriends over cocktails.

9. Polar Bear Kiss: Take a few ice chips and pass the cool sensation back and forth while French kissing.

You may conquer with the sword, but you are conquered by a kiss.-Daniel Heinsius-

10. Pop & Sizzle Kiss: Buy a bag of pop rocks and have a little fun with your tongues.

11. Eyes Wide Open Kiss: The name says it all, open those peepers and give it a go! Gazing into each other's eyes will add an extra touch of intimacy.

12. ABC Gum Kiss: Remember your teenage years and swap that piece of Bubble gum. Just be sure your partner isn't wearing braces or things could get sticky.

13. Law & Order Kiss: Intimidate your partner first with a line of playful questioning, then move in for a surprise kiss that leaves them begging you to slap the handcuffs on.

14. Marshmallow Kiss: Pretend your partner's lips are spongy and sweet, then bounce a little off the texture while you are sampling the treat.

15. Red Licorice Kiss: Place one end of the licorice rope in your lover's mouth and one end in yours. See who can nibble their way fastest to meet the other's lips.

16. Lady and the Tramp Kiss: Same as the Red Licorice, but substitute a strand of spaghetti.

17. Royal Kiss: Pop a tiara on your head, a pair of silk gloves on your hands, and be sure to sit prim and proper while delivering a sophisticated smooch.

I have found men who didn't know how to kiss. I've always found time to teach them. - Mae West

18. Irish Cream Kisses: Both you and your partner should swish a quarter shot of Irish Cream around, then swallow and lip-lock to savor the lingering taste in each other's mouths. Swish again and repeat.

19. Tai Chi Kiss: Facing your partner, stand straight with feet parallel and shoulder width apart. Drop your shoulders and hold your head erect. Slowly move towards each other until your lips meet, then hold the pose while breathing in deeply and allowing a profound sense of tranquility flow through you.

20. Tai Bo Kiss: Practice a few side by side punches and high kick moves with your partner, then turn to face each other to deliver a pulsating kiss.

21. Giggle Kiss: Find each other's tickle zones while engaging in a playful round of tongue tangling.

22. Tongue Wars Kiss: Just like thumb wars, but use your tongues instead. Each partner tries to get their tongue in the other's mouth while blocking with your tongues. Warning- may cause hysterical fits of laughter during and after.

23. Full Monty Kiss: Skip the kiss all together and get busy. A kiss is just a pleasant reminder that two heads are better than one. ~Author Unknown

24. Casablanca Kiss: Deliver a spontaneous, surprising kiss then turn and walk away while giving your best Bogart impression.

25. Stress-free Kiss: Gently massage the back of your lover's neck and upper shoulders while delivering a round of tender kisses.

26. Movie Star Kiss: Smack a wild, uninhibited wet one on your lover and demand a round of applause after.

27. Olympic Kiss: See how long you and your partner can tongue wrangle, then score each round on a scale of 1 to 10. Try to progressively beat each kiss with a better one until you're both contenders for the gold medal.

28. Around the World Kiss: Gently lick your partner's lips, tracing along the upper lip, then circling down around the lower one before fully engaging in a mouth to mouth session.

29. Say My Name Kiss: Use your tongue to spell out your partner's name while French kissing. Guaranteed to break up your normal routine and add some interest to your normal routine. Add some fun by taking turns spelling out various things in the other's mouth and see who can guess the most correctly.

30. Doggy-Style Kiss: Rub noses then give your partner a quick lick.

31. Hillbilly Kiss: Take a swig from your mason jar and smack your gums together. Keep your teeth in your pocket 'cause they'll just get in the way. Afterwards give a whooping holler of "yee haw."

32. Tomb Raider Kiss: Move in and steal a quickie before racing off to uncover fortunes beyond imagination while saving the world.

33. Sweetheart Kiss: Find your partner, and show them how much you care with the very best heartfelt kiss you can offer.

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HOT TIPS ON HOW TO KISS YOUR LOVER

A kiss is the most basic, yet most important step – some say it's even more meaningful than sex – to expressing feelings of affection between a man and a woman. Since it is the most fundamental aspect of a physical relationship, it is essential that men learn the necessary etiquette when it comes to kissing.

So, what is there to learn about how to impress your woman?

Do not Let Your Feelings Overtake You

There is a saying that a man loses his senses after four drinks and a woman loses hers after four kisses. For women, creating a perfect mood for a kiss is just as important, if not more, as the perfect kiss. Men are less concerned about the mood as they are concerned about the actual kiss. That's why so many men make the most horrendous mistake of forcing themselves into their respectful lady to satisfy their desire and to express their love. If you are truly serious about the perfect kiss, then create the perfect mood first.

Do not Rush

As mentioned above, men are often led into thinking that masculinity – strength, forcefulness, abruptness – is what makes them man. Women may be weaker than men in terms of physical strength, but when they are determined that they will not give in, no man can force them into kissing.

If you force your way into kissing, assuming that she, too, is ready and is craving for it when in fact she is not, you risk turning her off. Don't rush and study her carefully. Listen to what she says and watch how she moves until you know it's the right time.

Watch Your Tongue

You love her desperately, but there is no sign of such level of affection on her part. First, create the perfect mood for the kiss. Second, target her tongue. Women are especially sensitive to a French kiss and when she feels the touch of your tongue with her own, she feels that she has given something so meaningful and valuable to you.

At that moment, your tongue can mean the world to her. There is no way that she cannot fall in love with you.

Give Her a Chance

You will never succeed in kissing when it is a one way play. There must be this subtle game of give and take, which makes it all the more sweet and mesmerizing. If you want to enjoy this game, give her a chance to enter the game.

If you put your tongue inside her mouth and stay there without knowing what to do – like a child lost in amusement park – she feels the sudden urge to take over the game.

Softness

Strength is not the only thing that gives pleasure. You must be soft and gentle when you kiss. Men often make the mistake of giving into their own feelings all too easily when they kiss, thereby making woman feel like something is being forced into her.

Be gentle and always watch how she is reacting. Always control your tempo.

Close Your Eyes

It's not a rule, but you should always close your eyes when you kiss. When you leave your eyes open, you lose concentration and you might be led into thinking about other things, which she will eventually notice. Besides, wouldn't you naturally close your eyes when you kiss?

Fresh Breath

Now matter how much she loves you, you are an immediate turnoff when she is met by stinky breath at what is supposed to be a very romantic and memorable moment. Always carry mouthwash or gum – strawberry candy is also good – for the perfect moment.

Be Comfortable With Your Hands

If it's your first kiss with her, you are very likely to be awkward with your posture while you are kissing. The most natural way is to put your hands around her waist or her back.

practice makes perfect

So you've met the perfect moment and all you need to do is to turn those few minutes into an eternity for both her and yourself. We've all dreamed of our first kiss and imagined how it's going to feel, and most of us have already put that into a test.

For those who have not yet experienced the magic of a first kiss, keep in mind that the aforementioned advice is a definite asset.

THE MEANING OF ROMANTIC GIFTS FROM YOUR LOVER

IF SHE GIVES

If You Give: A tie
You're Saying: "Your beer-guzzling, frat boy charm has worn off. Please get a real job."

If You Give: Silk boxer shorts
You're Saying: "The less clothing I see you in, the better, stud."

If You Give: A weekend vacation for two
"I like you enough to spend every moment of the entire weekend with you alone. So if you were wondering if this is serious, it is."

If You Give: A sports car modeling kit
You're Saying: "I know that deep down beneath that manly exterior lies a little boy who wants to play. I respect that."

If You Give: Jewelry
You're Saying: "Did I already mention my ring size?"

If You Give: A shirt
You're Saying: "I like your style, but don't you think you'd look better in something like this?"

If You Give: A framed picture of the two of you
You're Saying: "Either wedding bells are about to ring, or I'm psychotic and will definitely stalk you if we break up."

If You Give: Tickets to a hockey game
You're Saying: "Take me to this game and help me learn more about your interests. Take a friend and lose me forever."

If You Give: A best-selling book
You're Saying: "I don't know you that well, but other people liked this, so why shouldn't you?"

If You Give: A handmade sweater
You're Saying: "I'm definite marriage material, if you like the Martha Stewart type."


If He Gives...


If He Gives: A necklace
He's Saying: "I really care about you and want you to think about me every time you wear this."

If He Gives: Lingerie
He's Saying: "I already think you're sexy, but I've fantasized about seeing you in something like this."

If He Gives: A Cuisinart
He's Saying: "I don't know how to tell you this, but I'm not attracted to you anymore."

If He Gives: A puppy
He's Saying: "I can already visualize the house, the picket fence and the children too."

If He Gives: A sweater
He's Saying: "I've got no imagination and I probably gave the same gift to my mother."

If He Gives: A weekend vacation for two
He's Saying: "I want 48 hours of uninterrupted sex."

If He Gives: A new perfume
He's Saying: "My ex-girlfriend wore what you wear now, so please try this."

If He Gives: A cellular phone
He's Saying: "Either I'm genuinely concerned about your safety or I need to be able to reach you every second of every minute of every day."

If He Gives: A CD you've wanted for months
He's Saying: "I am a good listener and I've got a great memory."

If He Gives: A poem
He's Saying: "I'm a romantic in love. And I'm broke."

DATING YOUR EX-LOVER - EX-BOYFRIEND, EX-GIRLFRIEND

As often as they are warned against it, sometimes ex’s do get back together. Re-dating someone you have been with before has its share of problems, and can sometimes end in disaster. However, re-dating your ex can mean that you were actually meant to be with one another, and can mean a fresh start for the both of you. Often, time apart shows how much you mean to each other, and rekindling lost love might be just what you need.

Before you decide to re-date your ex, a conversation should take place during which boundaries are set. You cannot simply pretend that this is the first go-round, and issues from your previous breakup(s) need to be addressed. Perhaps both of you have grown in your time apart, and that issue no longer stands between you, but that needs to be established before things get hot and heavy.

It is important to stay away from relationships that are doomed from the beginning. In other words, if you know it can’t work, don’t even head down that road. However, if you feel that a fresh beginning is possible, follow these tips for a more successful relationship.

1. Past is Past. I did say that you need to discuss issues from the past, but once they’ve been addressed, they should be stricken from the record. If you are unable to let go of things that have been said or done with your ex, then the possibility for re-dating goes right out the window. Instead, agree that past is past, and that you are going to move on from a fresh, open-minded perspective.

2. Look for Signs. If you’ve been with your ex before, then you know the signs that things aren’t going the way they should. Although you should not constantly be accusing your ex of behaviors that led to the relationship’s demise, you should also not ignore signs that things are headed asunder. Protecting yourself should be your utmost priority, even if re-dating your ex seems like a good idea.

3. Give the Benefit of the Doubt. In somewhat contradiction to rule #2, it is important to give your ex the benefit of the doubt. It is human nature to be wary when re-dating your ex, but don’t let it rule your new relationship. Instead, be open and honest about concerns, and make sure they are addressed sufficiently before moving on.

4. Be Careful of Fights. All couples argue, whether you are re-dating or not, so don’t expect a smooth ride free of breakers. Sometimes you’ll fight, and this is to be expected, but never throw old arguments into the face of your partner. You might be re-dating your ex, but that doesn’t mean he or she deserves to be punished for sins of the past.


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